Romans 13 - GNTD & KBTP

Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.

Love and relationships are important aspects of life, especially for younger generations navigating friendships, family dynamics, dating, and social connections. In a world where love is often portrayed in a confusing, fleeting, or superficial way, the Bible offers clear and timeless wisdom on what love truly means and how to build healthy relationships.

Here are seven Bible verses that will help guide you through the complexities of love and relationships.

1. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 — “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

In a world that sometimes focuses on instant gratification and fleeting emotions, the Bible reminds us that love is more about giving than receiving. Love isn’t just a feeling; it’s a choice to act with kindness and humility, even when it’s hard.

2. Matthew 22:37-39 — “Jesus replied: ‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’”

Jesus simplifies love and relationships into two commandments: loving God first and then loving others. When your relationships are rooted in love for God, they will naturally reflect a love that values and respects others.

3. Proverbs 17:17 — “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.”

Friendships and community are crucial, especially for the younger generation navigating through life’s challenges. Genuine friends love in every season, not just when it’s easy or convenient. They are there to support you during difficult times, and they offer strength and encouragement when you need it most.

4. 1 John 4:18 — “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love.”

Many young people experience anxiety, fear, or insecurity in relationships, whether it’s fear of rejection, fear of not being enough, or fear of vulnerability. But this verse reminds us that real love, the kind of love God gives, casts out fear. In healthy relationships, love should create a sense of safety, not fear or insecurity. When you’re in a relationship that reflects God’s love, you will feel valued and cherished, not afraid or anxious.

5. Ephesians 4:2-3 — “Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”

In a world where arguments and conflict are common, these verses from Ephesians encourage us to practice humility, patience, and unity in our relationships. It’s not always easy, but maintaining peace and working toward understanding are key aspects of healthy connections. Love isn’t about always being right; sometimes it’s about listening, understanding, and choosing peace over conflict.

6. Song of Solomon 8:4 — “Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires.”

For young people, particularly in the context of dating and romantic relationships, this verse offers wisdom about timing and patience. Culture often pressures young people to rush into relationships or equates physical attraction with love. However, the Bible encourages us to wait for the right timing, to allow love to grow naturally and genuinely, without rushing into anything prematurely. This ensures that relationships are based on genuine connection and mutual respect.

7. Romans 12:10 — “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves.”

Instead of asking, “What can I get out of this relationship?” we are encouraged to honor and respect others, putting their needs ahead of our own. True love is about devotion and commitment, not just convenience or personal gain. When you prioritize honoring others, you build relationships that are strong, meaningful, and lasting.

Conclusion

Navigating love and relationships as a young person can be challenging, especially in a world filled with mixed messages about what love is and how relationships should work. However, these Bible verses provide a clear and countercultural view of love: one that is selfless, patient, kind, and enduring. Love isn’t just about feelings, it’s about action, commitment, and putting others before yourself. When your relationships are rooted in these principles, they will flourish in ways that bring fulfillment, joy, and peace. So, take these truths with you as you navigate love and relationships, always remembering that God’s love is the foundation of all healthy connections.

Duties toward State Authorities

1 Everyone must obey state authorities, because no authority exists without God's permission, and the existing authorities have been put there by God. 2 Whoever opposes the existing authority opposes what God has ordered; and anyone who does so will bring judgment on himself. 3 For rulers are not to be feared by those who do good, but by those who do evil. Would you like to be unafraid of those in authority? Then do what is good, and they will praise you, 4 because they are God's servants working for your own good. But if you do evil, then be afraid of them, because their power to punish is real. They are God's servants and carry out God's punishment on those who do evil. 5 For this reason you must obey the authorities—not just because of God's punishment, but also as a matter of conscience.

6 That is also why you pay taxes, because the authorities are working for God when they fulfill their duties. 7 Pay, then, what you owe them; pay them your personal and property taxes, and show respect and honor for them all.

Duties toward One Another

8 Be under obligation to no one—the only obligation you have is to love one another. Whoever does this has obeyed the Law. 9 The commandments, “Do not commit adultery; do not commit murder; do not steal; do not desire what belongs to someone else”—all these, and any others besides, are summed up in the one command, “Love your neighbor as you love yourself.” 10 If you love others, you will never do them wrong; to love, then, is to obey the whole Law.

11 You must do this, because you know that the time has come for you to wake up from your sleep. For the moment when we will be saved is closer now than it was when we first believed. 12 The night is nearly over, day is almost here. Let us stop doing the things that belong to the dark, and let us take up weapons for fighting in the light. 13 Let us conduct ourselves properly, as people who live in the light of day—no orgies or drunkenness, no immorality or indecency, no fighting or jealousy. 14 But take up the weapons of the Lord Jesus Christ, and stop paying attention to your sinful nature and satisfying its desires.

Muhwilile ibabo banobusa

1 Mmwe ne mmwe ngaazwiyise pasi kwe babusi, ngobe akuna bushe guyapo agusi gunodwa ku Ndzimu, bushe guyapo gwakabigwa nge Ndzimu. 2 Ndizo iye unopandukila bushe gopandukila tjakalaugwa nge Ndzimu, ngono ibabo banothama sa ikoko banowozwizhisila kusumikilisiwa. 3 Ngobe balauli abatotjisa kuna banoshinga ndulamo, koga banotjisa kuna banothama tjisakalulwama. Apa unoshaka kuti usitje unobusa kene? Ndizo thama tjakalulwama unowodumana nawe, 4 ngobe balauli balanda be Ndzimu, kuti ndizo mululwamigwe. Koga ha ushinga tjakabipa, ipapo untje, ngobe aazosengela bukanu suli. Nlanda we Ndzimu unoshingikadza shamu ye Ndzimu kuna unoshinga mbipo. 5 Ndizo ngekwa ikoku nthu wakafanila kuzwiyisa pasi kwe balauli kusi kuyitila shamu ye Ndzimu koga, ne kuyitila hana.

6 Ndizo wali molipa lukhetho, ngobe babusi banoshingila Ndzimu abe shinga mishingo yabo nge buzhalo. 7 Ndizo lipani bose bamunokolota, mulipe lukhetho kuna bakafanila gulipiwa, mulipe mari kuna bakafanila lipiwa, tetani bakafanila tetiwa mukudze bakafanila kudziwa.

Bhatanani

8 Musibe ne wamuna nlandu naye, koga danani, ngobe iye unoda mmwe walondolodza nlayo. 9 Milayo inoti, “Usithame bupombgwe, usibulaye, usikwibe, usitjibe.” Milayo iyeyi ne mimwe yose, yakapetegwa mu nlayo nng'ompela unoti, “Ida mmwe nthu sekwa unozwida.” 10 Ludo agutothamila mbakidzani mbipo ndizo wali, kuda hwulondolodza nlayo wose.

11 Kuzhe kwa ikoku moziba kuti tjibaka ndi tjipi, moziba kuti tjazha nge buzhalo kuti mumuke mu hwope dzenyu, ngobe jidzo lipejo naswi ngwenu kupinda patakatangisa kugalamoyo. 12 Busiku gwapinda ntolo kwabe masikati. Ngatilashileni kutjena mishingo ye zhalima, ngono ngatiambaleni zwiambalo zwe ngwa zwe tjedza. 13 Ngatizwibhateni zubuyanana se bathu banotjila mu masikati, kusina kusazwibhata kene kulaladza, kusina bupombgwe kene kusazwidziba, kusina ngwa kene fupa. 14 Koga muzwiambadze She Jesu Kirisiti, ngono musikudze kugutsha mbumbiko dzenyu dze bubi.